Write Like You Talk
If there’s one rule that instantly levels up your storytelling, it’s this:
Write like you talk. Not like you’re trying to impress your high school English teacher.
Because here’s the truth:
In real life, no one wants to read writing that feels like writing.
We want writing that feels like a conversation.
Not robotic. Not formal. Not trying too hard.
Just clear, human, and honest.
💬 Why Writing Like You Talk Works
1. It builds trust
People trust what they understand.
When you write like you talk, you sound authentic — like a real person, not a brand, bot, or bureaucrat.
“Don’t attempt to obfuscate through verbosity.”
vs.
“Don’t use big words to sound smart.”
Which one feels more trustworthy?
2. It makes your writing easy to follow
Good writing isn’t about showing off.
It’s about making ideas stick in people’s minds. Spoken language does that naturally — it flows, it breathes, it repeats.
3. It reveals your voice
Voice is what makes your writing yours. It’s your rhythm, your tone, your perspective.
And your voice is strongest when you write like you talk — not when you’re mimicking a textbook or an academic paper.
🚫 What "Write Like You Talk" Doesn’t Mean
This isn’t about being sloppy or careless.
It doesn’t mean bad grammar, lazy structure, or endless “uhh”-filled rambles.
It means intentional clarity — using natural language that respects the reader’s time and attention.
Think:
Short sentences
Active voice
Everyday words
Humor, if that’s your style
A sense of rhythm and timing, like how you'd tell a story out loud
✍️ Quick Example: The Rewrite Test
Academic version:
“The protagonist’s motivations are obfuscated by conflicting internal and external pressures that undermine narrative clarity.”
Normal human version:
“The main character’s goals are confusing because they keep changing their mind — and everyone around them makes it worse.”
The second one is clearer, faster, and more relatable — and it actually lands.
🧠 Why School Writing Fails in the Real World
In school, you’re rewarded for sounding “smart”:
Long sentences
Formal tone
Passive voice
Big vocabulary
In the real world, those things push people away.
We’re bombarded with content. Nobody has time to decode your ego.
You don’t get points for sounding clever.
You earn attention by being clear and honest.
🎯 How to Practice Writing Like You Talk
1. Say it out loud first
If it sounds awkward, it is awkward. Speak your idea out loud, then type what you just said.
2. Record yourself explaining it
Pretend you’re texting a friend or explaining something on a podcast. Capture your natural voice, then clean it up — don’t formalize it.
3. Use contractions
Don't write “do not” unless you're emphasizing. Write “don’t.” It's how people speak.
4. Cut unnecessary words
Spoken language is economical. Don’t say,
“Due to the fact that…”
Just say,
“Because.”
5. Use short paragraphs and white space
People don’t read walls of text. They skim. They scroll. Make your writing breathable.
🧠 Bonus: What to Avoid If You Want to Sound Human
Overusing jargon (especially in tech, business, or self-help writing)
Trying to sound profound instead of being useful
Writing for approval, not for connection
Mimicking people who don’t sound like you
You don’t have to sound like Hemingway.
You just have to sound like your best self, talking to one person who actually cares.
🏁 Final Thought
The best writing feels like someone sitting across from you, telling you something they really mean — and doing it in a way that makes you want to listen.
So write like you talk.
Keep it simple. Keep it honest. Keep it human.
That’s how stories spread. That’s how ideas stick.
That’s how you show up in your words.
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